I would emphasize on settling disputes and arguments with your partner…
Have you ever observed that when you both first met and decided to embark on a marital journey it usually seems perfect?
Yea…There’s often no reason to argue…all you do is enjoy each others company and laugh heartily while fantasizing on the possibilities of your prospective future together. ..
But down the line…things seem different from how they were in the inception…now you see he‘s too bossy and shes too annoying…
Now your eyes are opened to each others flaws as if they suddenly sprang up. Truthfully it had always been there all along but you were too excited and caught up in the moment to take note of his/her flaws.
What then can be done?
Sit each other down and TALK!
Lovers tell every other persons what’s wrong about their relationship except themselves…how would a difference come from that?
If you’re in love with him/her then you talk to HIM/HER not your other friends…they’re not the ones you fell in love with afterall…neither are they the ones with the character flaw…
Sometimes it’s gonna take time to see a difference in your partner, why not see it as an opportunity to build your own patience
It is also important to note that the things your partner does which you consider a flaw and you don‘t like isn’t necessarily a flaw or a bad thing. It’s simply what YOU DON’T LIKE…SO EXERCISE PATIENCE AS WELL.
ALSO don’t be swift to correct every flaw at every time…
Never be too perfect not to see the humor in your lovers flaw…not every wrong is to be corrected, sometimes you ought to laugh and forget about it. ..give them some time and LATER TALK about it.
You’ll be shocked to hear yourself being called a nag even as a guy…
PATIENCE IS AS IMPORTANT!
Well, you may ask…
What about spouses who won‘t listen?
What if I‘ve been patient for so long?
WE’LL DISCUSS THIS IN THE NEXT BLOG.
HOWEVER, I’LL LEAVE YOU TO MEDITATE ON THIS:
Who you are is a grade on the scale of virtues…don’t be fooled by your professional titles. ..You can’t be a good HUSBAND if you were never a good MAN….neither can you be a good WIFE when you’ve never been a good WOMAN.
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